I’m not exactly sure how to best communicate this, so I will do my best. We had an extremely difficult afternoon today. We met with the staff physician of the Sick Kids NICU regarding Mya’s situation. We went into this meeting with a lot of confusion as we had received vastly different information from different doctors. The doctor quickly put everything back into perspective, and basically, Mya does have PVL.
Factoring in the quality of life Mya will have with PVL, and the tedious pain and suffering she will endure throughout the multiple heart surgeries (in which the doctors are not very confident that she can even survive), Lindsay and I (along with the recommendation of the doctors) have made a very emotional decision to pursue a non-aggressive treatment approach going forward.
What this will mean is that both girls are being transported back to London tomorrow (2 separate medical teams in 2 different ambulances). They will be at St. Joe’s, which will allow us to be in a more comfortable surrounding closer to home and with both girls together. We will use this opportunity to have a professional photographer come in for some family portraits, have the babies baptized, and allow for some visiting time. When we are ready, we will have the CPAP removed from Mya and taken off the heart medication, and allow nature to take its course. Once this happens, we have been given anywhere from hours to several days.
We will communicate on here when the best time will be for people to visit. If you can hold off on phone calls tonight, that would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for understanding.
-Craig & Lindsay
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
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What a tough day you've had. I'm glad that you guys are going to be heading home. Keep us posted on the trip home. Sending you love and hugs! xoxo
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts are so with you during this very difficult time. Our prayers goes out for little Mya, Alyssa and parents, grandparent and great-grandparents.
ReplyDeleteWe will pray and hope for miracles, and they do happen, and that the little one, Mya, does not suffer.
Elaine and Wes (friends of Doug & Sheila)
As always I will be thinking about you. I hope that you will make some wonderful memories with Mya and Alyssa and I will look forward to seeing you soon.
ReplyDeleteLove Rebecca
Our thoughts and prayers are will your whole family as you prepare to release Mya to be with our Lord. She will always be your little angel. Sending our love and good wishes for Alyssa coming home soon.
ReplyDeleteLove and God Bless, Bob and Anne Marie Roche
I can't express to you what I am feeling with having Mono's myself this really feels so close to my heart.
ReplyDeleteI am thinking of you ..praying.
I will wait to hear the updates..I would like to come to the visiting if that is possible.I understand if it will be family only though.
I will wait to see your post.
God Bless,
Tanya & Family
I am so very sad for you all right now...and you know that I get it so much more than most. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and that my Angel Cole is looking out for both your girls right now.
ReplyDeleteI just want to give you a big hug right now Linds and will try to do that as soon as it is okay with you to come and visit.
Love you lots,
Jodie, Geoff and the boys
Our thoughts and prayers continue to come your way, in light of these latest, most difficult developments. Alyssa will know the love of two fantastic people who will love her so much. And Mya will go to be with the Lord, if He is so willing, surrounded by these same two wonderful parents.
ReplyDeleteMuch love to you all.
Aunt Brenda and Uncle Royce
I am sending as many prayers your way as I possibly can! My heart is with you in this incredibly difficult time. I am glad you have a wonderful family to lean on, and if you need anything at all I am here for you.
ReplyDeleteWe are praying for all of you!
ReplyDelete- the O'Brien family
Hi Craig and Lindsay:
ReplyDeleteYou are in our thoughts, please call or email if you need anything at all or need a shoulder for extra strength. Cherish every moment.
Al and Marcy